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Ongee v Lamaro (Divorce Cause 126 of 2020)

High Court · [2022] UGHCFD 27 · 2022 Petition Granted AI-generated summary ↓ Download Pin to watchlist Add to matter
Jurisdiction
Uganda
Case Type
Divorce petition filed in the High Court Family Division seeking dissolution of marriage on grounds of cruelty
Decision
Marriage dissolved; custody granted to respondent; maintenance shared between parties; each party retains individually acquired property

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Holding

The High Court dissolved the marriage on grounds of cruelty, finding that the respondent's denial of conjugal rights, derogatory statements, and engagement in quarrels constituted cruelty causing the marriage to irretrievably break down. Custody was awarded to the respondent, with whom the children had lived since 2017, while the petitioner was granted free access and responsibility for school fees and medical care. Each party retained individually acquired property due to lack of full disclosure of assets by both parties.

Outcome

Marriage dissolved; custody granted to respondent; maintenance shared between parties; each party retains individually acquired property

Facts

The petitioner and respondent married on 15 January 2011 at St. Phillips Cathedral Church, Gulu, following a customary marriage. They had two children, aged 11 and 9 at hearing. The petitioner alleged the respondent subjected him to cruelty including domestic violence, psychological torture, denial of conjugal rights, statements that he was inadequate in bed and not the father of the children, and physical assaults in the children's presence. The petitioner left the home in 2017 due to the acrimonious relationship but continued paying school fees. The respondent denied the allegations, stating differences were reconcilable and the petitioner was a poor communicator. At the time of hearing, the respondent had custody of the children and had cared for them since 2017. Both parties were gainfully employed and had acquired property during the marriage, though neither had full knowledge of the other's property holdings.

Issues

  1. Whether there are grounds for dissolution of the marriage between the petitioner and the respondent
  2. Whether the petitioner should be granted custody of the children with maintenance
  3. What remedies are available to the parties

Orders

  • The marriage between David Ongee and Mary Lamaro celebrated at St. Phillips Cathedral Church, Gulu on 15th January 2011 is hereby dissolved on the ground of cruelty of the respondent.
  • A Decree Nisi is entered under Section 8(1) of the Divorce Act.
  • The respondent shall take full custody of the two children of the marriage.
  • The petitioner shall have free access to the children but their education should not be destabilized.
  • The respondent shall not deny the petitioner access to the children.
  • The petitioner shall provide school fees, school requirements, and medical care for the children.
  • The petitioner and the respondent shall agree on the choice of schools and health facilities for the children.
  • The respondent shall provide housing, feeding, clothing, and any other needs of the children.
  • Each party shall retain the properties individually acquired during the subsistence of the marriage.
  • Each party shall bear its own costs.

Rules and key headnotes

Family Law — Divorce — Grounds for Divorce — Cruelty — Constitutional Equality of Grounds
Section 4 of the Divorce Act is null and void insofar as it required women to prove additional grounds for divorce compared to men, as this constitutes discrimination on the basis of sex in violation of the equality provisions under the 1995 Constitution; all grounds of divorce mentioned in Section 4(1) and (2) are available to both parties to the marriage.
Family Law — Divorce — Cruelty — Definition and Test
Cruelty has no comprehensive definition but depends on the habits and circumstances of the matrimonial life, the characters of the parties, their normal mode of conduct, and the knowledge each has of the other's intentions and feelings; no conduct amounts to cruelty unless it has the effect of producing actual or apprehended injury to the petitioner's physical and mental health, including danger to life, limb, or health, bodily or mental, or reasonable apprehension of it.
Family Law — Divorce — Denial of Conjugal Rights — Cruelty
Denial of companionship and conjugal rights imbedded in the marriage contract without reason causes suffering and mental torture and therefore amounts to cruelty; a marriage without companionship and intimacy unless by consent of parties does not exist and has irretrievably broken down.
Family Law — Divorce — Proof of Cruelty — Abandonment of Matrimonial Home as Evidence
Where a petitioner has abandoned the matrimonial home and there is no evidence of cohabitation with another person or extramarital relationship, the only logical explanation for the abandonment is cruelty as alleged, and the petitioner's evidence may be accepted even without corroborating witnesses.
Family Law — Custody — Best Interests of the Child — Continuity and Stability
Where children have lived with one parent for a substantial period (five years) and that environment has been tested, it is in the best interests of the children not to destabilize them by changing custody, even where the other parent seeks custody, provided the custodial parent is fit and proper.
Family Law — Matrimonial Property — Division — Lack of Full Disclosure
Where both parties have acquired property during the marriage but there is lack of full disclosure by both parties as to their individual holdings, it does not meet the ends of justice to order equal sharing of only the known properties of one party; in such circumstances each party should retain what they individually acquired to avoid one party benefiting without reciprocity.

Legislation cited (6)

Cases cited (4)

  • Uganda Association of Women Lawyers v Attorney General (Constitutional Petition No. 2 of 2000)
  • Habyarimana v Habyarimana [1980] HCB 139
  • Ntanda v Kayemba (Divorce Cause No. 4 of 2008)
  • Kiyemba v Batte (Divorce Cause No. 127 of 2018)

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Ongee v Lamaro (Divorce Cause 126 of 2020) [2022] UGHCFD 27 (5 April 2022)
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